Kim Porter who for more than a decade was in an on-again, off-again relationship with Sean “Diddy” Combs said her rudest awakening in all her years with Combs, 37, took place late last year, when Porter was pregnant with the couple’s twin daughters D’Lila Star and Jessie James, who were born December 21, 2006. That was when a girlfriend informed her that Combs had recently fathered a baby with another woman.

As Porter was to learn, the other baby was born five months before Porter and Combs’s twins arrived. The mother was Sarah Chapman, 33, who lives in Atlanta, worked in fashion and knew Combs for several years.

Ultimately, Combs did approach Porter with the news, but it was after their twins were born, she says.
“He told me that he may have gotten himself into a situation and he may have fathered another child outside the relationship and I said, ‘Really? Well, I already knew. I’m glad you decided to be a man,’ ” recalls Porter. “I was like, ‘Dude, this is so wack I can’t even respect you right now.’ And for me, once the respect is gone, I’m not even listening to you.”
But as things finally played out, Porter says her choice to leave Diddy was simply because the relationship was not working for her. “I’m a Southern girl, and my home life is numero uno,” she says. “I wasn’t waking up feeling happy. There’s no other way for me to articulate it, other than a feeling. I just wasn’t feeling it, that’s why I had to leave.”

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