Candy Spelling bailed on her granddaughter’s first birthday at the last minute over the weekend. Originally Candy had RSVP’d yes to Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott’s daughter Stella’s first birthday bash, but at the last minute pulled out.

More pictures of Tori after the cake…

The feud continues to grow, but we get a glimpse on how Candy handles it. From Mom Logic:

“Candy did RSVP to the event but decided not to attend when she found out there would be cameras there. She wanted it to be an entirely private meeting.” But another source says Candy “knew there would be cameras and had her people call a week before to have the photo releases sent over.”

“She waited until one hour before the event to notify Tori, by e-mail, that she wasn’t attending,” adds the source. “Tori was busy preparing and didn’t get the e-mail until after the party. She was waiting for her mom the whole time.”

Anybody who has a child knows that an hour before a party, you aren’t sitting around checking email. So, that means Candy never planned Tori’s parties and that Candy doesn’t earn much sympathy as a mother figure.It’s hard to see Tori as at fault anymore, since she extended the invitation and said cameras would not roll if mom was not comfortable with it.