Hugh Hefner‘s former mansion mainstay has admitted she and Hank have discussed the “D” word.

“He deserves a lot more sex, he definitely does,”

Kendra, mom of an active toddler, said.

“Women can be so crazy at times and forget about our men. You know, they need some love. They need some loving, too.”

So Kendra is saying it’s all her fault she hasn’t been able to keep up with her man’s appetites. Add that to post-partum depression after the birth of Hank, Jr., and moving to a different city on a regular basis as Hank bounced between football teams was enough to drive Kendra crazy.

“We didn’t have a home. Our stuff was scattered all over the United States. We had tax bills sent to three cities. I went crazy. I had a meltdown. I was like, ‘If we don’t find a home in such and such a time, I’m going to have to leave you for awhile so I can find a home. I have to do this for our baby.

Kendra revealed.

“We set the expiration date—not to divorce, but to separate.”

Fortunately, the couple came to their senses and talked about it. So the divorce, and the separation, isn’t a top priority for them these days. We guess this means Hank’s getting all the sex he deserves…

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Kendra tells Life & Style, “Not having Hank around hurts,” “Moving across the country by myself makes me think of my own mom who raised me and my brother alone. Hank’s not going to be there forever, but with him not physically here, I’m a single parent now.”

So she’s not really a single mom just temporary apart from Hank by choice!

Hank’s decision to sign with the Minnesota Vikings — and spend time away from his family– resulted in a screaming match with his exasperated wife. “It hurt a lot,” Kendra tells Life & Style. “When Hank left I felt lonely. He’s my everything. Nobody else can really fill that loneliness.” She admits there’s been a lot of tears throughout this time. “We cry. It’s hard, and we aren’t ashamed to cry.”

As for Thanksgiving, baby’s 1st birthday and Christmas, ”I’m going to go back to the minus-2-degree weather to spend Thanksgiving, baby Hank’s 1st birthday and Christmas in a small one bedroom hotel room with my husband and son. That’s all that matters to me.”

Oh how sad! Of course the LA weather is a lot nicer but if you loved the guy enough.. yada, yada, yada just me thinking out loud here.

Baskett was dropped by the Philadelphia Eagles and signed to the Minnesota Vikings.

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An insider tells Life & Style, “She’s moving back to LA,” “It’ll happen in mid-October. She made the decision firmly and told Hank.”

The insider adds, “Hank is pissed,” “The fighting between Kendra and him is bad. They’ve had teary fights and crying fits. They’ve been screaming at each other. He can’t understand why she won’t come to Minnesota. Every day is torture for him.”

As for Kendra, “In her mind, it’s not her fault Hank can’t keep a job,” notes a second insider to Life & Style. “She has a job too — plus friends in LA and family in San Diego. She’s not going to Minnesota and destroy her career.”

Ok, that’s that! Tough ain’t it? What’s next? Do you see Kendra and Hank heading for a divorce? We certainly hope not.

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Hank is excited, but he isn’t the one doing most of the work!

“Yeah, about baby number two, we’re talking about it,” the reality mom, 25, tells E! Online. “Hank the other day just freaking called me and was like, ‘I want another baby. I want you pregnant.’ ”

Wilkinson isn’t in a huge rush, but says she’s “definitely” aiming to get pregnant next summer because she wants her son, Hank Baskett Jr., who turns 1 in December, to have a playmate. “I want them close in age,” she explains.

That’s funny too…Hank’s now is yesterday while Kendra’s now is in one year or so. Who do you think will end up winning this battle?

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Kendra reveals in an interview that the jealousy was short lived, however and now the two are pals.

Speaking to People, she said that her relationship with Hefner had “definitely changed” over the years but that it had always been cemented in friendship.

“The friendship that we started with and have always had led us to right now,” she explained. “He became our best friend. He’s always there.

“You can’t have a better friend than Hef. He got me to look in the mirror and see beautiful. Hank and I are so blessed to have him in our lives, and of course the baby.”

She continued: “At first, of course, Hank was a little jealous about Hef but now they are buddies. It’s so fun to see.”

Riiiight. Do you believe they are buddies? Would you be buddies with someone who saw your spouse naked?

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Kendra says, “He’s doing a good job because he’s understanding,” “He’s like, ‘Kendra, we just have to hold our heads high because, yeah, we’re going to get attacked, but we can’t run. We have to hold hands and walk through this and face this fact.’ It’s going to be really hard. It’s going to probably be the hardest time of our lives.”

Kendra said she is angry at her ex Justin Frye for disrupting her family.

“It broke my heart because how can you do that when I have a baby?” she said. “I have a kid. I have a husband. It just sucks.”

“I was just a normal girl living a normal life in San Diego, California, with my boyfriend who I was going to eventually marry,” “Of course we had sex like every couple does and every now and then we would videotape it. There’s a lot of couples who do that. At that time I wasn’t a celebrity. I didn’t even know I was going to become a celebrity.”

Ok, I get all that but what about the story of Kendra pocketing $680,000 upfront and 50% of the sales going forward? Is it because she thinks she might as well make the most out of it since her ex already sold it to Vivid?

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Why would Kendra think a baby could save her marriage? Only the elimination of the sex tape scandal can do that!

As Kendra Wilkinson struggles to hold together her marriage to pro football player Hank Baskett, she’ll do whatever it takes to put the shocking sex-tape scandal behind her — including having another child with her husband. An insider reveals exclusively to Life & Style, “They’ve been trying for a second child for a while. And Kendra hopes it will happen sooner rather than later.”

“Kendra knows she upset Hank over all this sex-tape stuff, and she wants it all to go away,” the insider tells Life & Style.

Why do people thinks babies help marriages? Babies are a lot of work and stressful in themself, let alone when their is relationship issues! Do you think Hank and Kendra are doing OK?

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Hank’s father came out and said he supported Kendra, but no word from Hank himself, except through a source.

According to Life & Style, Wilkinson’s husband is “totally upset and embarrassed,” and concerned about how his wife’s sex tape will affect his NFL career.

Apparently Baskett comes from a religious family, so this can’t be sitting well with them.

“Hank makes her (Kendra) pray before meals now. His family is so religious and he really calmed her down a lot, he’s good for her,” Kendra’s bridesmaid and playmate Brittany Ginger told Pop Tarts just before they tied-the-knot in 2009.

Do you think the newlyweds could be in trouble once this sex tape comes out? Kendra and Hank seemed like they were completely in love…can love conquer all?

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Kendra was worried about these tapes affecting her relationship with husband Hank Baskett…now we really know why! Multiple men! From Radar Online:

A document governing the potential sale of Kendra Wilkinson’s sex tape reveals that multiple partners were featured having intimate relations with the reality TV star, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively.

Kendra is threatening to sue over the release of a sex tape she made when she was 18. Vivid obtained the tape and the porn company says it will soon distribute it.

So these tapes are actually five years old, Kendra has been keeping them in the closet! She tried selling them two years ago, but stopped once she met Hank and they got in to a relationship. Do you think she’ll win this lawsuit?

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Kendra and Hank Baskett have not even been married a year and this sex tape has Kendra fearing for her marriage. According to Radar Online:

The 24-year-old pin-up’s lawyer Yael E. Holtkamp – from powerhouse firm Lavely and Singer in Los Angeles – has asked porn giants Vivid Entertainment to ‘cease and desist’ with releasing the video which could highly embarrass the married model.

Their scathing letter to Vivid reads: “The video is private and highly confidential taken for private use and not for public disclosure.

“Any exploitation of the video would be a gross violation of Miss Wilkinson’s constitutional and common law rights of privacy.”

Vivid Entertainment isn’t backing down yet, though, leaving Kendra a wreck! Do you think Vivid should back off and let kendra’s tape be kept private?

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Kendra used to like her large breasts, but they grew after pregnancy. Duh! From Monsters and Critics:

The busty reality TV star says she wants to shrink her size E chest after they grew during her recent pregnancy.

Kendra, 24, gave birth to Hank IV in December and told talkshow host George Lopez: “I’m a little top-heavy now, come on.”

Her hubby Hank Baskett says he supports whatever decision she comes up with. What an awesome guy!

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It’s one thing to talk about sex when you are single and a Playboy bunny, but now you’re a married mother. It’s just immature! From E! Online:

“When the baby sleeps, we have sex!” Kendra told me earlier today. “That’s what it is for us. That’s why it’s so cool to be young parents because we have the energy to do that.”

As well as having the energy to get back to her…

…stripper pole workouts! Not only did Kendratell me that she’s back on the pole, but she recently made an in-store appearance in Las Vegas for her line of stripper poles.

Also in Vegas was—what else?—some more rollin’ in the hay! Kendra and Hank jetted to Sin City for Valentine’s Day. “He surprised me with 10 dozen roses in our hotel room,” Kendra said, “and I surprised him with sex.”

Ugh. Do we care? Kendra, Keep your sex life a bit more quieter. I know you aren’t used to that, but sheesh!

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Kendra went in to labor on Wednesday and her baby was born via C-section early Thursday morning. From Celebrity Baby Scoop:

Hank Randall Baskett IV was born via cesarean on December 11 at 12:37am in a hospital near Indianapolis, Indiana, tipping the scales at 9lbs, 5oz and measuring 22 inches in length.

“We are all healthy and incredibly happy and can’t wait to spend every moment with little Hank,” the proud new parents tell OK! exclusively.

Hank junior was almost 9 1/2 pounds! That’s huge for a first baby. Glad to hear everyone is recovering nicely. How soon before Kendra reveals all the details of the birth on her website? Congratulations Kendra and Hank!

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Kendra has always been a bit well endowed! Pregnancy is even adding to her curves. She tells Zimbio:

“I want my boobs to stop growing. They’re kind of gross. I know they’ll shrink after I breastfeed, but if they don’t, I might get a breast reduction.”

However, the 24-year-old star is thrilled with the way other parts of her body have changed. She has piled on 40 pounds during the pregnancy and revealed she now has a much curvier posterior that her husband Hank Baskett appreciates. She explained to Us Weekly magazine: “I’m so happy. Hank checks out my butt. He’s like, ‘Yeah, look at this baby now!’ ”

Is anyone thinking that was too much information? Kendra, keep some things secret! How much do you think Kendra will gain…and most importantly, how fast can she take it off?

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Kendra was of course not too cool about hubby being unemployed plus the fact that the couple are expecting their baby in December so this is great news!

Kendra is happy now after the signing:

“This is a great opportunity for Hank to be playing for the Colts. Peyton Manning is one of the best – if not the best – quarterbacks in the league, and I’m excited to see my baby kick some a–!” she says, adding: “So proud of Hank for staying strong and positive.” – via Sports Yahoo

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Kendra and Hank have reality show money coming in, plus they probably have a bunch in the bank. They should be just fine for the time being. From the Huffington Post:

 Wide receiver Hank Baskett was released to make room for Vick, who is eligible to play Sept. 27 against the Kansas City Chiefs. Vick will begin practicing with the team Wednesday, though he cannot play in Sunday’s home opener against the New Orleans Saints. Vick was suspended for the first two regular-season games as the final league penalty for his role in running a dogfighting ring.

Doesn’t seem fair, but I guess Vick served his time. Where should Kendra and Hank move to next? Would you like Hank to be on your team?

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Kendra and Hank were married last week, but their baby is due in December. This is what she says via Fox News:

“Our child will definitely be Christian,” Wilkinson told Tarts last week, with Baskett adding that they are going to be “very strict” yet still “spoil” their young ones at appropriate times.

“But they are going to have to earn it, we’re not just going to hand it to them. Most importantly, they have to keep good grades because school comes first and then everything else after that,” he explained.

Ahhhh, the words of someone who isn’t a parent yet. Can you see Kendra attending church weekly? Maybe, but she’ll have to tone the dresses down…the cleavage could be a deal breaker.

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The media didn’t jump all over Kendra because they were so busy covering other stories of the weekend. But People Magazine has the scoop:

At around 6:45 p.m., the Playmate and former Girls Next Door star, 24, walked down the aisle in a white dress, dripping in more than $100,000 worth of platinum jewelry by Michael Barin, including drop earrings, a pendant and bracelet. The groom also wore white, as did the groomsmen, while the bridesmaids were in lavender.

How very traditional sounding for Kendra, who lived with a much, much older man and two other girlfriends, who used to pose naked and had raunchy parties. Very interesting and…normal sounding. Bridget was a bridesmaid, while Holly was not. Is that telling of their former situation? Congratulations Kendra and Hank!

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People.com caught up with Kendra and bridesmaid Holly Madison doing what they do best — partying at Prive nightclub — where Holly admitted to reporters her friend was nervous.

“I think she’s probably nervous,” bridesmaid Holly Madison said Friday night at Prive Las Vegas while celebrating her Sin City revue PEEPSHOW. “The ceremony is “going to be in the evening, and I think it’s going to be really beautiful and touching,” Madison said a few hours before boarding a flight to attend the event, to be held at her and Wilkinson‘s former home, the Playboy Mansion. “I’ll probably cry.”

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Kendra and her NFL boyfriend Hank Baskett are set to tie the knot in June at the old sex pot Hugh Hefner’s Playboy Mansion. No worries, Kendra will be wearing clothes, I mean wedding gown. Kendra tells People magazine that her wedding dress will be a white puffy corseted number that she calls “so different.” – Different? I bet it must be quite revealing. That’s my guess.. We are happy for you Kendra. Hank Baskett seems like a nice guy.